Trust

Scripture: "Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much." (Luke 16:10)

Observation: This is so true! If I have been burned by someone, especially repeatedly, I have a hard time trusting in them again. However, a loyal and faithful friend is very valuable and I do not hesitate to trust him / her.

Application: In my life, I have come across many people I trust. Usually these friends don't let me down often. But I've also been hurt by other friends. Although I still consider them as such, I keep them at arm's length because I do not trust them. I do not divulge deep feelings and share thoughts. It is much more superficial than a true meaningful friendship. On the flip side, because I know what it feels like to be on that side, I hope that I am one that others can trust. I want to be someone that others can count on. If I make a commitment, I will do everything I can to stick to it and not be flaky. If a friend needs a shoulder to cry on, I will listen. (And sometimes all that is needed is a supportive ear, and not necessarily to give advice.)

Prayer: Lord, I know that I have high expectations of others. It's probably because I want that to be reciprocated. But if those expectations are not met, please help me to let it roll off my back and not dwell on being hurt. I also want to be the kind of person You can be proud of. Amen.